DisABLEd sex?... Sexuality doesn't depend on ability!

Jun 20, 2018


Doctors could give you exercises or therapy, yes, but they don't precisely share what sex positions could be the most convenient for patients who suffer chronic illnesses, temporary or permanent disability… A topic that's often seen as taboo.
There are just so many unanswered questions, and none of us seemed to know where to get the answers. Have you ever gone up to a stranger in the street and asked them about their sex life? LOL, nope! Neither have I! So many people have multiple chronic illnesses where they have to see a variety of specialists, so there are barriers to asking questions. The time restraints and a multitude of doctors can make it extra difficult.
Since there are a variety of illnesses and disabilities, there are infinite ways these can affect sex. People with injuries or conditions that affect their limbs may have trouble getting into certain positions. For many, looking at positions that can ease that difficulty is embarrassing or awkward, let alone learning about positional aids like thigh harnesses for toys or cushions
Overcoming discrimination can make it hard even to date, especially when people can’t go out to bars, clubs, etc. by themselves because of their health and/or a lack of accessibility
In my opinion, disability and sexual relationships need to be discussed more often. The forbidden topic of disability and sex is all too familiar for us, and we need to start opening up the conversation and breaking stigmas.

Here are a few things to keep in mind:

#1 Yes, people with disabilities or chronic illnesses can have sex!
It’s also a common misconception that wheelchair users only have relationships with other disabled people because we’d have that familiarity, and although this does happen, it’s not always the case. A lot of wheelchair users have perfectly able sexual partners.

#2 There's more to sex than penetration, duh!
While penetration might be our fave, it’s often viewed as the only way to experience sex, but that could not be further from the truth. If penetration isn't possible, you can try oral, hand jobs, fingering, mutual masturbation, toys. There are oh so many ways to experience an orgasm than vaginal or anal intercourse, yay!



#3 It shouldn’t be taboo!
Sex and disability are not mutually exclusive, and like abled people, wheelchair users have urges, cravings, and fantasies that they desperately want to fulfill. Sex is a fundamental part of life that most people relish, there’s nothing seedy or wrong about it

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07-21-2018 02:00:17

babtbobot1 :

Cerebral palsy with battle scars from my youth here, and on SSDI, Why does it cost so much $$$ to get laid, I often to massage parlors for relax and hj only at $80

07-20-2018 10:38:56

dwick6279 :

Does anyone take credit cards these days

07-19-2018 06:44:27

acebookoo :

Hi youre dedinitely on point. I have ED from a disability but its extremely hard dor girls to allow you the tools of the trade, tongue, vibrators etc. some time ive gone theough 10-15 ladies not dinding even one.... and id you do theyre not the best in shape or theyre old and not appwaling at all but out od desperation they may agree. Myself im an older gentleman preferably finding a beautiful brown akin hairy women who enjoys dining at the Y..... and by the way... whats up with women shaving off all their ounic hairs..... at least leave a little... dare i say its sexy ans erotic yum yum!

07-14-2018 20:23:40

acebookoo :

Hi youre dedinitely on point. I have ED from a disability but its extremely hard dor girls to allow you the tools of the trade, tongue, vibrators etc. some time ive gone theough 10-15 ladies not dinding even one.... and id you do theyre not the best in shape or theyre old and not appwaling at all but out od desperation they may agree. Myself im an older gentleman preferably finding a beautiful brown akin hairy women who enjoys dining at the Y..... and by the way... whats up with women shaving off all their ounic hairs..... at least leave a little... dare i say its sexy ans erotic yum yum!

07-14-2018 20:13:18

biggmatt9287 :

Back injury really makes it extremely difficult to maintain an erection. Its embarrassing.

07-14-2018 19:20:00

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07-14-2018 03:21:00

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07-13-2018 08:21:17

doctortaco :

I've had two back surgeries and am classified disabled, walk with a limp, and work 50% of the time to make ends meet. I have nerve damage and have a issue keeping an erection and at times climaxing. While the physical release is great I agree with the blogger that there is much more to sex than penetration. HJ, BJ, DFK, DATY, etc and simple skin on skin contact is very arousing for me. I tell the providers what I like, what turns me on, and to take my direction during our time. I rarely climax during penetration anymore. Besides, I like shooting my load on tits or in a mouth. As usual it is a YMMV world but most work with me well.

07-12-2018 13:10:56

jagm50 :

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07-12-2018 12:44:11

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07-11-2018 12:09:33

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07-11-2018 04:51:13

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07-10-2018 13:48:41

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07-09-2018 13:56:53

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07-09-2018 13:54:58

connie :

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07-09-2018 13:41:41

yayayummi :

I agree one hundred percent

07-07-2018 14:37:09

1984hank :

It’s been years since I’ve had any kind of sex. Had a stroke and left me very week on left side. Can’t maintain a stiff cock very long. I yearn for some mutual satisfaction eather orally ar hand jobs. If any one interested let me know.

07-06-2018 09:51:50

bladez :

I'm in a wheelchair and it's been so long since I had sex with someone other than Rosie Palmer. When it came time and I got an escort nothing really happened. Well I was rock hard and we played. Mostly I played with her. I really don't think the ability should play a role. I think it's more the atmosphere and what you want out of it. Any thin petite New Mexico girls? I need one. And I won't disappoint.

07-06-2018 04:41:30

summer9355 :

Where are u from

07-01-2018 07:08:38

kelleyleigh213 :

I totally agree, you can't just say, yeah, I have sex for favors and money. You will be ostracized, etc. I am very disability friendly and strong and knowledgeable. I was a in home care worker for 2 years a decade or so ago. Lol. Also, im very flexible.

06-29-2018 20:08:24

scarlet-ribbons :

As always, I'm disability friendly. Knowledgeable in many physical matters; however, there are stairs at my incall. ~Wishing all a sexy day~

06-28-2018 11:13:39

alexisray :

Facts

06-27-2018 15:09:45

davidwood0221 :

I for one am in a wheelchair regardless if you are in one or not intimacy or sex as you call it is essential and is what makes you human and that is how i found my special someone because we all have urges right regardless of gender

06-25-2018 21:53:56

rychlot :

Well put maxp84z.

06-23-2018 17:47:07

maxp84z :

Sex is a private matter. Disabled or not. We only post graphic reviews because we do it from anonymity. Try telling other people you pay for sex and see how cool they think you are. They won't. It's frowned upon. So we keep it to ourselves. Or just a very small group of people.

06-23-2018 12:13:06

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