DisABLEd sex?... Sexuality doesn't depend on ability!

Jun 20, 2018


Doctors could give you exercises or therapy, yes, but they don't precisely share what sex positions could be the most convenient for patients who suffer chronic illnesses, temporary or permanent disability… A topic that's often seen as taboo.
There are just so many unanswered questions, and none of us seemed to know where to get the answers. Have you ever gone up to a stranger in the street and asked them about their sex life? LOL, nope! Neither have I! So many people have multiple chronic illnesses where they have to see a variety of specialists, so there are barriers to asking questions. The time restraints and a multitude of doctors can make it extra difficult.
Since there are a variety of illnesses and disabilities, there are infinite ways these can affect sex. People with injuries or conditions that affect their limbs may have trouble getting into certain positions. For many, looking at positions that can ease that difficulty is embarrassing or awkward, let alone learning about positional aids like thigh harnesses for toys or cushions
Overcoming discrimination can make it hard even to date, especially when people can’t go out to bars, clubs, etc. by themselves because of their health and/or a lack of accessibility
In my opinion, disability and sexual relationships need to be discussed more often. The forbidden topic of disability and sex is all too familiar for us, and we need to start opening up the conversation and breaking stigmas.

Here are a few things to keep in mind:

#1 Yes, people with disabilities or chronic illnesses can have sex!
It’s also a common misconception that wheelchair users only have relationships with other disabled people because we’d have that familiarity, and although this does happen, it’s not always the case. A lot of wheelchair users have perfectly able sexual partners.

#2 There's more to sex than penetration, duh!
While penetration might be our fave, it’s often viewed as the only way to experience sex, but that could not be further from the truth. If penetration isn't possible, you can try oral, hand jobs, fingering, mutual masturbation, toys. There are oh so many ways to experience an orgasm than vaginal or anal intercourse, yay!



#3 It shouldn’t be taboo!
Sex and disability are not mutually exclusive, and like abled people, wheelchair users have urges, cravings, and fantasies that they desperately want to fulfill. Sex is a fundamental part of life that most people relish, there’s nothing seedy or wrong about it

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sexii_lexii :

I personally could not think of a better way to spend my time then to be giving pleasure and whatever form that may come to him is on the receiving end. I do not segregate or discriminate no matter what the situation maybe or the like or dislike from any client. Not that I don't have standards I just don't think that we were all made to be exactly the same I'm always up for New Challenges especially when that comes with a rewarding outcome and that's giving care 2 whomever is requesting. I am very fun and of course very funny, full of energy and life and optimism if there are any gentleman looking for a super sexy tan bleach blond very long hair athletic body 34 triple D in the Inland Empire that is needing any extra attention or really no matter what the need is you go ahead and give me a call or text at 909-418-8822

09-18-2018 07:48:37

odollaz407 :

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09-18-2018 07:22:11

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09-15-2018 20:47:19

robert36320 :

I am near Dothan Alabama I am only 37 and I do want sex but I am disabled and I am not like most people they have taken my driver license so I can not drive but I can take a buss to your house my e mail is robertmit@outlook.com my phone number is 334-796-6151 text me first or you will be ignored I am a young man from cottonwood AL my turn on are younger woman any race but preferred white or Asian but i will take any I like regular size no huge woman

09-14-2018 16:15:02

ashleycash :

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09-13-2018 22:46:27

analuv :

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09-13-2018 21:57:25

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09-12-2018 20:42:57

pinkjessi :

My ex was paralyzed from gun shot but he was incomplete meaning he would walk again, we had so much sex it was crazy ... i actually enjoyed having sex with him when he was in the wheelchair opposed than regular. I love being incontrol ...

09-12-2018 20:40:30

brikman :

I was run over by a truck at a stoplight on my motorcycle. Nerve damage in lower back, have no feeling in my penis. I can get an erection, but almost impossible to have an orgasm. Girlfriend can’t understand and she gets so frustrated that I can’t, she thinks it is her. So we don’t have sex anymore...sad.

09-08-2018 13:40:37

j-boy209 :

I'm disabled in a wheelchair & just turned 40 years old. I haven't gotten laid in well over a decade now & I'm so tired of jerking it. I need the soft sensual touch of a beautiful sexy woman again or else I'm gonna go nuts, lol. So if there's any sexy providers out there in my area that are experienced with disabled men or think they can be open minded & willing. I live in Lodi, Cali, which is in the Central Valley of Northern California. Please text or call me at (209) 327-1918 Thank you & goodbye & hope to hear from you soon.

09-08-2018 07:09:27

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09-04-2018 09:29:57

707-jpurp :

Im in santa rosa. Ca. 707. I have a back injury. Im berly 24. & its scary to look at that

09-03-2018 08:38:42

a-za-z0-9. :

I'm a nurse. Happy to work with disabilities

09-02-2018 17:17:14

delightfultiffany15 :

Hello, Im Ms Delightful, I wouldn't mind doing with an disable person. They have feelings and needs as well as we do.. So yes I would give them the enjoyment of their life

08-23-2018 20:16:51

sxyjanae :

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08-23-2018 20:01:45

reaperkushin :

I am a disabled man in St.Louis, and my mom thinks I'm handsome. Really though, this is a sensitive or taboo subject for a lot of people, whether disabled or not. Before my accident i never had a single problem meeting women. My problem was that i met too many women, and wasn't interested in anything more than friends with benefits. After my accident my whole outlook and demeanor changed, and i met a girl who would later become my fiancé. She has since passed away, but we split well before that. Ive had a couple girlfriends since, but it is so hard to find a girl that won't flake out on me. So needless to say, its been about 2 years since ive even tried to date anyone and/or just find anyone to be intimate with. I am a good looking guy with his shit together. I have my own place, a career, a car, i am fiercely independent, and a very, very generous lover. Ask me about my muff diver tattoo. I dont necessarily need mrs. Right, but a warm, sexy, lady i can curl up with, play with, and talk to would be amaz-az-ing. I get as much, if not more out of pleasing my girl as i do being pleased. If you are in the STL area or a couple hours south of chicago and meet these descriptions then send me an email Verb.one@gmail dot com

08-23-2018 19:18:08

jmsrimes76 :

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08-23-2018 01:12:37

fatbootybaby :

I want a man who can fuck me until i cum over and over every time

08-21-2018 15:43:57

bill218 :

Would like to meet/assist any ladies w/disabilities in Jupiter area. Mature male.

08-19-2018 10:10:03

yubel92 :

I'm a young man who wouldnt mind helping a disabled woman. Everyone neeeds affection and love. If you are from NYC and need that attention ill gladly give it to you. Email me at atsumastorm@gmail.com

08-19-2018 08:04:28

goforit1947 :

I live in southern ca. I would love to help disabled FM that is looking for a regular friend also.

08-17-2018 12:06:22

moodman222 :

I am 100% disabled(spine issues)w/ extreme pain 24/7 and lack of mobility sucks but add the mind numbing pain and it takes a knowledgeable women but more importantly a patient women. I was in a series of car crashes over a 2yr period,the final one being 2 mths post 2nd MAJOR surgery. To explain my hell,it feels as if my spine and hip bone are disconnected and pulling on ea other. No reprieve...ever. I've had to sleep in my recliner since '06. If there's a women out there willing to help me I'm very generous! I haven't been w/ a lady since '06 either. Probably classifies me as virgin again.

08-17-2018 07:55:57

dommeslaughter :

I am near Raleigh NC and if clean and respectful I have no problem!!I can travel to other states but the fee is high and half has to be paid upfront.

08-16-2018 09:52:53

jazzman11 :

Hi have a disability and need a friend

08-15-2018 15:47:00

carlaofdallas :

Well my formal training was as a sexual surrogate with practices in ed but throughout the years that I've been in this profession I have worked with all disabilities. And be honest I'm very comfortable with it my favorite two guys have only one leg and yes there are different positions you have to use a different techniques you have to use but we all have some disability or another. What I find hard is that my son who is a grown man and was in p*** had a head injury few years back and even though he's still gorgeous to look at people don't understand or rather women don't understand that it is just an injury not the core person so he has not been blessed with an active sexual life because of this and I'm so sad because he still a man and men need love affection and intimacy. I'm afraid that if he doesn't get that soon he will be lost forever. You see the disabilities that you can see you can work with but the disabilities that you can't see makes it a lot harder he's struggling so hard because he understands that he was always always chased by women and still is until he opens his mouth and they realize that he's a little different.

08-14-2018 19:13:09

kelleyleigh213 :

I am available to all disabled persons. I have no problem with anything that may honey usual ability. Send me an email via the site or call or text me at 2138429485

08-13-2018 14:51:26

billyc416 :

I’m disabled and have a hard time finding the right woman to help me out. 785-420-0501 if you’re a awesome friendly woman passing or him Kansas

08-12-2018 17:25:12

penelopewaters :

This is an incredibly important topic to bring up and I wish it was discussed more often. As far as I'm concerned touch and connection are as much basic human need as food, water and shelter. However with sex and touch, not only is it not considered a basic need, it is adamantly ignored. I believe denying/ignoring peoples basic human needs is abusive and thus conversations around that are very important to changing that cycle. I would love to talk with more providers who have worked with people who are differently abled to share knowledge and experience. I am in the New Orleans area and I travel often and I am always available to people with special needs in a safe and consensual manner. I love sharing with every kind of person the depth of passion and pleasure. Xoxo!

08-03-2018 17:08:20

chris00792087 :

I do not mind, 405 266 3749. Everyone deserves somebody, all I want is the right woman

08-03-2018 17:04:24

addisonparker :

One of my best encounters was with a gentleman in a wheelchair. the cold kitchen counter top never felt better as i squirmed about.....his grip so tight as he devoured me

08-02-2018 04:17:52

jagm50 :

Looking for a provider in Orlando or Ocala area. i Have a spinal injury.

07-31-2018 15:56:56

mystee :

I used to be a special needs teacher. My students were challenged by many different types of disabilities, ranging from autism (a social communication disorder) to cerebral palsy (a physical disability). Now that I have changed professions a bit, I am pleased to continue offering my talents and services to those with special needs/disabilities, making whatever accommodations necessary, as long as they are within my abilities (and within reason). Please do not hesitate to contact me if you are anywhere in the Southern California region, and tell me about your special needs. Place yourself into my very capable hands, and you will not be disappointed!

07-29-2018 11:58:56

mizzroosevelt :

I used to care for a lot of disabl d patients. I know exactly what you need and it me. Mizz Roosevelt 619-436-6338

07-28-2018 20:23:42

kittykatzmeow :

I welcome the opportunity to offer my skills to anyone with any level of ability as long as I decide we are match for a date. I've personally dates two men in wheel chairs and countless others with limited mobility and other health conditions. Injuries, healing from surgery, or other challenges that affect our intimacy. I am open minded and creative when it comes to adapting and accommodating needs as they arize.

07-28-2018 17:09:21

dwick6279 :

I have cerebral palsy I am 65 year old I live in the wildwood Florida I am looking for a mature women to be with I love to eat text me 330=412 9810

07-28-2018 04:24:05

mike21331 :

I agree, only i have a fetish. I enjoy having sex with disabling woman. The problem is finding them. I live on Long Island Ny

07-23-2018 22:16:27

mike21331 :

O agree

07-23-2018 22:13:17

alexisrose :

I think its best to let your provider know you are disabled beforehand and explain your limitations. That will probably assist in the process of finding who you want. There are a lot of gfe girls but a lot of girls aren't gfe so definitely understand that if a girl is willing to work with you that you should also respect her boundaries so everyone can have a pleasant experience. And to the guy asking why its so expensive, if 80 is your limit maybe this isnt the hobby for you or maybe stick with the massage parlors. Dont ask girls to sell themselves short because you can't afford it or aren't willing to pay it. We have a lot of expenses that come with this line of work as well as obstacles so that's something to consider as to the price point. Plus if you just take a girl out on a normal date I'm guessing youre going to spend more than 80 and you might not even get laid so there's that to consider as well.

07-21-2018 12:04:10

dommeslaughter :

I take credit cards and gift cards..I am 400 for an hour and I am worth alotttttt more!I do phone sex and accept cards for that or PayPal.I am also looking a sub into findom or a cash pig!

07-21-2018 02:00:17

babtbobot1 :

Cerebral palsy with battle scars from my youth here, and on SSDI, Why does it cost so much $$$ to get laid, I often to massage parlors for relax and hj only at $80

07-20-2018 10:38:56

dwick6279 :

Does anyone take credit cards these days

07-19-2018 06:44:27

acebookoo :

Hi youre dedinitely on point. I have ED from a disability but its extremely hard dor girls to allow you the tools of the trade, tongue, vibrators etc. some time ive gone theough 10-15 ladies not dinding even one.... and id you do theyre not the best in shape or theyre old and not appwaling at all but out od desperation they may agree. Myself im an older gentleman preferably finding a beautiful brown akin hairy women who enjoys dining at the Y..... and by the way... whats up with women shaving off all their ounic hairs..... at least leave a little... dare i say its sexy ans erotic yum yum!

07-14-2018 20:23:40

acebookoo :

Hi youre dedinitely on point. I have ED from a disability but its extremely hard dor girls to allow you the tools of the trade, tongue, vibrators etc. some time ive gone theough 10-15 ladies not dinding even one.... and id you do theyre not the best in shape or theyre old and not appwaling at all but out od desperation they may agree. Myself im an older gentleman preferably finding a beautiful brown akin hairy women who enjoys dining at the Y..... and by the way... whats up with women shaving off all their ounic hairs..... at least leave a little... dare i say its sexy ans erotic yum yum!

07-14-2018 20:13:18

biggmatt9287 :

Back injury really makes it extremely difficult to maintain an erection. Its embarrassing.

07-14-2018 19:20:00

tonilove1225 :

Hi I'm very good at satisfieing many different needs sexual or not even just company I'm great with ppl get in touch with me if you want to know more and are close to Toledo Ohio tonilovesemail@gmail.com and if your interested get in touch with me and I'll give you my number

07-14-2018 03:21:00

tempmel :

hello All, I am Temptress MeL and I have been practicing Massage/Tantra for 20 years. I am also an intimacy life coach. I wrote an online course called The Survival Course. I talk about the different sexual issues that occur in men, Lets face it, as we get older things don't always work, when we want them to. Along with showing and teaching you how to have fun, enjoy yourself at any age in a sensual way. But, I also have worked with many different Chiropractors before and I know pretty much everything about your spine. Combining the 2 forms of massage together is something that I do best. My website is: TheTemptressAcademy.com My Instagram is Miamigurl79. Where I am running a contest for a Private erotic video of me.

07-13-2018 08:21:17

doctortaco :

I've had two back surgeries and am classified disabled, walk with a limp, and work 50% of the time to make ends meet. I have nerve damage and have a issue keeping an erection and at times climaxing. While the physical release is great I agree with the blogger that there is much more to sex than penetration. HJ, BJ, DFK, DATY, etc and simple skin on skin contact is very arousing for me. I tell the providers what I like, what turns me on, and to take my direction during our time. I rarely climax during penetration anymore. Besides, I like shooting my load on tits or in a mouth. As usual it is a YMMV world but most work with me well.

07-12-2018 13:10:56

jagm50 :

Hi guys, I am a veteran and wheelchair user with a spinal injury looking for a good provider in Clermont, FL. or close by? Can anyone help me please? Thank you. I hope I am doing this thread right and in the right place to ask a question.

07-12-2018 12:44:11

sexy-sunshine :

There are many reasons to get a massage, including the following: 1. Massage relieves pain. 2. Massage eases tension 3. Massage relaxes inflamed muscles. 4. Massage improves circulation. 5. Massage reduces stress. 6. Massage provides a welcome respite. 7. Massage enhances your mood. 8. Massage is a way to pamper yourself. 9. Massage makes a great gift for others and lets the giver feel good. 10Massage can be rejuvenating. 11Massage provides expert handling of your minor bodily aches and pains. 12Massage offers a romantic, sensory experience.

07-11-2018 12:09:33

m.david64 :

I met a lovely lady w/a beautiful spirit.I woke the morning having had a most satisfying and sensual experiance.She lost her arm in a accident 2yrs prior to that.Any ladies don't hesitate 2 call me if this holding u back.

07-11-2018 04:51:13

dawn69 :

All the fun things you can do without a hard cock is my specialty. I am in the Ocala Fla. area..8506661333

07-10-2018 13:48:41

rachel.sinclair :

i've had many clients with different needs and loved them all..Feel free to call me. 937-239-2335

07-09-2018 13:56:53

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07-09-2018 13:54:58

connie :

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07-09-2018 13:41:41

yayayummi :

I agree one hundred percent

07-07-2018 14:37:09

1984hank :

It’s been years since I’ve had any kind of sex. Had a stroke and left me very week on left side. Can’t maintain a stiff cock very long. I yearn for some mutual satisfaction eather orally ar hand jobs. If any one interested let me know.

07-06-2018 09:51:50

bladez :

I'm in a wheelchair and it's been so long since I had sex with someone other than Rosie Palmer. When it came time and I got an escort nothing really happened. Well I was rock hard and we played. Mostly I played with her. I really don't think the ability should play a role. I think it's more the atmosphere and what you want out of it. Any thin petite New Mexico girls? I need one. And I won't disappoint.

07-06-2018 04:41:30

summer9355 :

Where are u from

07-01-2018 07:08:38

kelleyleigh213 :

I totally agree, you can't just say, yeah, I have sex for favors and money. You will be ostracized, etc. I am very disability friendly and strong and knowledgeable. I was a in home care worker for 2 years a decade or so ago. Lol. Also, im very flexible.

06-29-2018 20:08:24

scarlet-ribbons :

As always, I'm disability friendly. Knowledgeable in many physical matters; however, there are stairs at my incall. ~Wishing all a sexy day~

06-28-2018 11:13:39

alexisray :

Facts

06-27-2018 15:09:45

davidwood0221 :

I for one am in a wheelchair regardless if you are in one or not intimacy or sex as you call it is essential and is what makes you human and that is how i found my special someone because we all have urges right regardless of gender

06-25-2018 21:53:56

rychlot :

Well put maxp84z.

06-23-2018 17:47:07

maxp84z :

Sex is a private matter. Disabled or not. We only post graphic reviews because we do it from anonymity. Try telling other people you pay for sex and see how cool they think you are. They won't. It's frowned upon. So we keep it to ourselves. Or just a very small group of people.

06-23-2018 12:13:06

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