Turning Her On!!

Oct 17, 2018

I was reading the other day that Men are microwaves and women are slow cookers.

With men, all you have to do is push a few buttons, and we're hotter than a habanero. But with women, it's an all-day process. You have to buy the ingredients, mix them together, and then put everything in the pot and let it simmer ... and simmer ... and simmer.

So, I thought it would be fun to figure out some ways to get her engines going.

  1. Buy Her something from VS
    A gift of lingerie is cliched, right? So twist it. Give it to her when you (seemingly) don't expect sex right then and there. Pass it under the table at a restaurant and ask her to go to the ladies' room and change into it. 

 

  1. Whisper into Her Ear
    In public, at a party, tell her what you want to do to her later: "Tonight, I'm going to make you have as many orgasms as possible

 

  1. Bear Fruit
    Chocolate syrup and whipped cream get all the kinky play in movies. Instead, turn her body into a juicer. "The best foods for sex are fruits that you can rub onto the body, such as soft mango or papaya. Then devour both her and the fruit." Get sticky, shower, repeat. 

 

  1. Give Her a Massage
    But make it interesting:
  • In hot weather, roll a chilled can of soda along the backs of her thighs. 
  • In cool weather, warm a towel in the microwave for 10 seconds and massage her with it. 
  • Season her belly with a little salt, and then slowly lick it off. Add tequila to taste.
  • Turn winter gloves inside out, put them on, and massage her with the soft side.
  1. Give Her Chills
    "Cold is sensed by more nerve endings than mere touch can reach, so you're expanding her range of response Do this: Chill a bunch of grapes for at least 20 minutes. Then trail a small sprig of them along her neck, nipples, and inner thighs. Nibble away. Now put a grape in your mouth and gently press it against her clitoris by holding it in your teeth or between your lips.

 

  1. Make a Bedroom Burrito
    Bondage is appealing for a good reason: It heightens the anticipation for the one who's receiving the pleasure. But anything with locks, Velcro, or ties can freak her out (me, too), so try this: While you're rolling around in bed, wrap her up in the sheet so she can't do anything with her arms (think burrito or straitjacket). Leave her head, shoulders, and lower legs uncovered. Now kiss every inch of exposed skin. It's simple, spontaneous, and soft-core.

 

  1. Blindfold Yourself
    Many women who are insecure about their bodies stick to the missionary position because you can't see their bodies that way. If you really can't see her because your eyes are covered, she'll do a lot more with you, to you, and for you.

 

  1. Do It in Public
    Or just pretend. Exhibitionism is a secret thrill for many women, but the threat of arrest deters them. So have sex standing up, with her near the bedroom window. It's easy to duck out of the way. If she's semi clothed, your neighbors will be none the wiser.

 

  1. Work the Angle
    Liberator Shapes velvet cushions create an "orgasm-optimum" 26-degree pelvic tilt, which means maximum contact between your body and her clitoris, and minimum demands for foreplay. Feel free to adjust the angle slightly—there's evidence that 27 degrees works as well.

 

  1. Get Bigger
    When you're on top, place her legs over your shoulders. This shortens her vaginal canal, so your penis feels bigger inside her.

 

 

Here are a couple of things I think are good, can't wait to see what you guys have to say.

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korilove :

Learn to read body language and listen for proper responses.I like to guide a man to what I want.Just like I will take instruction and do as needed to make sure we both leave smiling ear to ear;)

01-16-2019 17:04:57

sensualbrie :

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01-15-2019 05:32:51

tiatatumcurvy :

Women definitely need a bit more foreplay than men. However, you can make it exciting. If you are truly a guy who love to take the opportunity to please a woman, I figure I can list a few ways to help you out.. For the Gentleman who is fairly new to seeing companions: If you are wanting to start on the best foot, take the time to learn about the companion & what she likes. Ensure communication with the companion is going easily as possible.. Follow all her instructions on the process of meeting. Be cooperative during screening and booking. Be ready to place a deposit, her time is important isn't it? Feel liberated to grab a small gift for your first meet, perhaps chocolates or some other small treat. Yes many of the steps listed above are great, but being a professional gent during booking, is STEP ONE of foreplay ;) This is what truly will make for a great first experience!

01-13-2019 18:56:18

bellababy24 :

In seattle interested in everything 7028503327

01-13-2019 12:53:07

ravenskye69 :

I agree with this a women needs a little foreplay you have to warm her up and get her ready. Men on the other hand simply can hear the word sex and they are ready to go. Women love romance and affection where as most men don’t need that until after the fact. Once balance is obtained that could be the best sex ever.

01-11-2019 16:32:04

zoee45 :

I do agree that a little warm up foreplay is good. Plus making sure its nice and wet or lubed up first. No girl wants to have some guy down there being rough and rubbing it raw as well as dry. This hurts very much and is very quickly a turn off Gentlemen, this is a sign that u havent peaked our senses up just yet and we need a little more warming up is all.

01-11-2019 07:34:24

delightfultiffany15 :

Love all those things but being romantic is was I like. I rather for a man to buy lingerie that he would like me to model in for him. Its not about the money, its the enjoyment and the fun in it. Lovely Tiffany 346-233-0427

01-10-2019 05:40:55

joeblack6996 :

Placing her legs over my shoulders really made her horny and she squirted all over my clock and balls. She never squirted before in other positions.

01-07-2019 05:54:49

jrw584 :

Turning her on is something you feel and just about pleasing her buy her lingerie to make her feel sexy I love using my tongue to make her feel now it's about her and make her feel special

01-05-2019 15:02:47

cuchulain :

I believe turning a woman on has far more to do with her overall perception of you than any individual acts you do for her. A man, whom a woman deems sexy, can turn her on like a light switch. If a woman doesn't already find you sexy, then it will take far more than what's on the OP's list to turn her on.

01-03-2019 07:22:19

eatuout67 :

I like to lick, tongue, kiss,suck and taste her pussy and butthole as well as her tits and nipples....,hoping to be able to get her to climax with me wanting to taste her pussy juices and cute little butthole too...tongue fucking her pussy and butthole, and giving her pleasure this way should lead to her hopefully wanting to lick and suck on my dick and nuts a bit too, I'd also like to lick and suck her nipples trying to get some titty juice out of them....,after a half hour or so of this I should hope she is going to be wanting me to slowly at first put my dick in her pussy a little bit at a time gradually deeper each time until it's in as far as I can possibly get it to go, leaving it in like that awhile before pulling it out and eating it out again licking her butthole also before I start to fuck her pussy slow and gradually get faster and deeper and whisper to her that she feels so good and her pussy and butthole tastes so good and that I hope to also be able to put my dick into her ass as well and be able to fuck her cute little butthole too and get to cum while inside it all the way, hoping she'd first want me to fuck it in and out before cumming in it.... and then finishing again with eating her out....

12-29-2018 06:10:03

needadate69 :

I like chocolate ladies seem to be more sexy . give her some money for sexy clothes. or stick it in her pocket

12-25-2018 17:08:52

toottoottoodii :

My favorite is head I love when my pwussi is ate good an I love spirit finger while getting it

12-23-2018 05:12:58

crudemoves54 :

Wham bam thank you ma'am is BORING If the lady is in it only for the money, you might as well spend it on a blow up doll or a robot. On the flip side of the coin, sure, she needs the money, but it is a total conquest when she says,"Maybe I should be paying YOU instead! It's happened twice to me. I have a surprise reward for any lady that tells me that: A C-note always ready to hand them for TIPS. One refused the bonus. The other got so excited I almost thought I was going to have to order a straitjacket. One side note: If they say no to DATY, chances are they will be nothing more than a cold, clock watching robot. That opens the door to more adventure than any thing else you can do, including the grand finale insert!

12-19-2018 18:45:29

devadana :

there is nothing that will turn a woman on more than your ability to get present. nothing... Tantra can teach you how...

12-17-2018 22:13:47

thehobbyguy99 :

She's not your girlfriend or wife. The thing that turns her in the most is the size of the donation. Size does matter.

12-17-2018 20:23:46

poon_raider :

Uh, you guys do realize that when you ‘hire’ a provider, it’s not a real date right? So romancing her is not required to get her to put out....

12-17-2018 03:16:16

paislylovegoddess :

Sweetheart I'll show you all the moves I know how to make sure that a woman is turned on and that you can teach her a few things on how to please you as well and how to get your partner to deepthroat you and that will have benefits for years to come for 404 880 2076

12-16-2018 20:10:36

nicholleej :

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!: 1. have a church nun turn me out 2. have a orgy with 2 sets of twins What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?: A dark back alley, A movie theatre, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A store dressing room, An elevator, Anywhere What types of sexual activities turn you on?: Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Spanking, Role Playing, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Voyeurism, Massage

12-14-2018 20:01:39

workout45 :

Shortens vaginal canal?lol

12-13-2018 21:16:08

connie :

Enough of the monkey-talk. When you look at a man who is very in-tune with himself, you’ll notice that he is grounded and relaxed. Funny as that mental image might be, it’s time to get serious. confidence is key! Have a fresh smell and dental hygiene make me kiss him more and attach my body closer.

12-13-2018 07:53:42

devin_d :

Confidence, humor, honesty (KEEP IT REAL!) and straightforward communication are key to having FUN/relaxing/enjoying yourself to thee utmost without any akwardness/drama/disappointments

12-10-2018 13:21:57

riahstar :

I think first and foremost there needs to be communication. If y'all can't talk about sex go back to square one cause you missed something. I find that talking about sex and really asking her what she likes, what makes her tingle, gets her ready for me to devour every inch of her. And him. I find that talking about what turns me on gets guys hot. Especially my naughty mind. Mr7man you should try Nuru

12-09-2018 17:52:10

jbarr13421 :

Yeah.. that all seems like too much work.

12-06-2018 16:32:51

licker1000 :

I like to lick girls assholes Seems to turn them on

12-03-2018 23:17:44

sexysashaluv :

Ha! Sounds about right

12-03-2018 19:31:37

malrock :

Sounds great, the bedroom burrito. .mmmmmm yes

11-28-2018 12:43:10

onlystardemarco :

Sensual massage does it for me babe.

11-26-2018 23:58:37

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11-22-2018 08:35:05

honey45566 :

Hi

11-22-2018 06:03:04

mr7man :

I love giving full body warm coconut oil massages to my partner. Letting my hands tease her inner thighs just grazing her lips, kissing the back of her neck, and licking my way from there on down to her ass. This just drives her crazy and gets her wet and ready for more and sometimes begs for it. I love watching her body twitch under my touches.

11-22-2018 02:53:21

missmozella69 :

@bigballs3 I like that concept

11-19-2018 11:11:18

bigballs3 :

Stuff a $100 dollar bill in her tweety and tell her you like cuming into money!!

11-15-2018 00:05:37

elwin4 :

Getting stuff off of her mind and making her feel heard along with a jovial attitude makes her feel wanted and comfortable. Touching her lightly and kissing her body then going down on her can speed things up. Just getting her off before you do is a step up to a selfless experience. The one I see always puts more into it because you put her first.

11-12-2018 00:55:18

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11-10-2018 18:03:46

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I have a pretty girlfriend new in business and vailable for 3some gfe

11-05-2018 15:24:03

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11-05-2018 15:23:39

dre6549 :

Are there any available providers in the Brockton Ma area? My number is 5088576248. Thx

11-04-2018 04:45:40

dre6549 :

I'm having a hell of a time making an appt with a provider in the Brockton Ma area. Anyone have any idea how to properly address a person so that I can get an appt with someone. I feel like I'm asking to make an appt in the wrong way. Any assistance is appreciated

11-04-2018 04:40:22

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Got turned on in Atlanta when someone slid me a drink and a sexy suggestion. Call me! 7703367447

10-30-2018 07:38:48

iceman0186 :

Yes you are absolutely correct rozepetal! You just described me lol. all my male friends don't believe that making woman orgasm. They think I'm just talking it up but I do truly get so horny giving woman some of the best orgasms of there life. I take pride in making most women squirt. Now it's just finding a partner that truly feels that way lol. Idk if they even exist.. At least in my life . My past ex's were all very selfish n boring in bed... I'm tired of always having to do all the work all the time... Yes I enjoy but I'd love to see how it feels on the other side lol

10-29-2018 03:28:14

hornylambo :

I once dated a girl that got turned after a 32-oz of Jamba juice with some boost vitamins.

10-24-2018 16:56:47

delightfultiffany15 :

I believe I like all those ideas sounds kinky...My cookie went to jumping after reading that...Ms Tiffany out of Houston 346-233-0427

10-21-2018 15:03:39

moneykavegas :

Ohh I like these ideas. Im going to try the frozen grapes. Sounds exciting and yummy at the same time. My girl is going to love this. Thank you.

10-21-2018 10:50:37

rozepetal1111 :

All I know is I can't get into anything until I become aroused. When a man. Put s his own needs aside to satisfy his partner because that is more fun and exciting for him than his own orgasm you can feel the connection which makes any sexual experience that much better.

10-20-2018 14:33:23

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